The Calm Text Kit

What to say when you don't know what to say.

50 copy-paste texts for the moments that keep you staring at your phone: slow replies, after a fight, "where is this going," and goodbyes. Warm, honest, no games.

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7 moments, 50 texts

7 TEXTSWhen his texts slow down
7 TEXTSAfter a fight: going first
7 TEXTS"Where is this going?"
8 TEXTSAfter a date: following up
7 TEXTSWhen you're left on read
7 TEXTSDrawing a boundary, kindly
7 TEXTSEnding it with grace
+ BONUSA 30-second "before you send" check

A few from the kit

After a fight

I've been thinking about earlier. I don't want to be right, I want us to be okay. Can we talk tonight?

Puts the relationship ahead of winning.

Where is this going

I really enjoy what we have, and I'm starting to catch feelings. I'd love to know where you're at.

Shares first, then asks. Feels safe to answer.

Left on read

I noticed my last couple of messages didn't get a reply. I'm not upset, I just don't want to keep texting into a void. Are you still interested?

Asks for a straight answer, calmly.

Every text comes with a one-line note on why it works and when to use it.

What this is (and isn't)

It is a shortcut for saying what you mean, kindly and clearly, when your brain goes blank.
It isn't a script to make anyone like you, come back, or change. Nothing can do that, and we won't pretend otherwise.
No manipulation. No mind games, no "make him chase you" tricks. Just honest words you can send without regret.

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$4.99PDF · 50 texts · 10 pages

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Questions

How do I get the file?

Right after checkout, your download link is sent to the email you used to pay. Keep that email and you can download it again any time.

Can I edit the texts?

Please do. Swap the [brackets], change a word so it sounds like you. They're meant as a starting point.

Is this therapy or professional advice?

No. It's general communication guidance. If you ever feel unsafe in a relationship, in the US you can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788.

Refunds?

It's an instant digital download, so sales are final except where a refund is required by law. That's why the 5 free texts are there: read them first and see if the style fits you.